{"id":3018,"date":"2018-03-16T06:58:12","date_gmt":"2018-03-16T05:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/?p=3018"},"modified":"2018-03-16T07:38:35","modified_gmt":"2018-03-16T06:38:35","slug":"mytus-dobreho-ucitele-zboren","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/2018\/03\/mytus-dobreho-ucitele-zboren\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fdtus dobr\u00e9ho u\u010ditele zbo\u0159en"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u010cinnost projektu MAP Mnichovohradi\u0161\u0165sko se ch\u00fdl\u00ed ke konci. Ve \u010dtvrtek\u00a015. b\u0159ezna 2018 se uskute\u010dnil posledn\u00ed posledn\u00ed semin\u00e1\u0159 pro u\u010ditele a pro rodi\u010dovskou ve\u0159ejnost s n\u00e1zvem Jak vypad\u00e1 \u0161kola bez pora\u017een\u00fdch, jeho\u017e veden\u00ed se ujala Mgr. Lucie Beranov\u00e1, u\u010ditelka Z\u0160 Studentsk\u00e1. Lektorka vych\u00e1zela z my\u0161lenek psychoterapeuta Thomase Gordona a z jeho knihy\u00a0\u0160kola bez pora\u017een\u00fdch, jej\u00edm\u017e poselstv\u00edm je mj. i d\u016fle\u017eitost d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9ho vztahu a otev\u0159en\u00e9 komunikace mezi d\u00edt\u011btem a dosp\u011bl\u00fdm. D\u016fv\u011brnost a otev\u0159enost se prol\u00ednala t\u00e9\u017e cel\u00fdm semin\u00e1\u0159em, kde byly zhruba z poloviny zastoupeny u\u010ditelky a z druh\u00e9 poloviny rodi\u010de (matky). <\/span>Podtitul Gordonovy knihy zn\u00ed Praktick\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edru\u010dka efektivn\u00ed komunikace mezi u\u010ditelem a \u017e\u00e1kem – a pr\u00e1v\u011b vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 komunikace mezi u\u010ditelkami a rodi\u010di byla po dobu semin\u00e1\u0159e pro ob\u011b strany velmi obohacuj\u00edc\u00ed, co\u017e tak\u00e9 zazn\u011blo v jejich z\u00e1v\u011bre\u010dn\u00e9 reflexi.<\/p>\n

Jak\u00e1 by tedy podle \u00fa\u010dastnic m\u011bla b\u00fdt “\u0161kola bez pora\u017een\u00fdch”? \u0160kola, kam se neboj\u00ed chodit d\u00edt\u011b ani u\u010ditel, kam oba d\u0159\u00edve zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed chod\u00ed s radost\u00ed, \u0161kola, kde panuje partnerstv\u00ed, spolupr\u00e1ce, respekt, svoboda, tolerance, bezpe\u010d\u00ed\u00a0a jej\u00ed\u017e prost\u0159ed\u00ed je podn\u011btn\u00e9 a v\u00fduka p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 dle schopnost\u00ed\u00a0\u017e\u00e1k\u016f\u00a0atd. Lektorka p\u0159edstavila \u00fa\u010dastnic\u00edm kurz efektivn\u00edho vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed, jeho\u017e pr\u016fkopn\u00edkem Thomas Gordon je, co\u017e je v\u00fduka, kter\u00e1 p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed \u017e\u00e1k\u016fm v\u00edce v\u011bdomost\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 vede ke zralosti a p\u016fsob\u00ed na n\u011b zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd sni\u017euje konfliktn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b. P\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eila t\u00e9\u017e \u00fa\u010dastnic\u00edm metodu aktivn\u00edho naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed, kdy d\u00edt\u011bti d\u00e1v\u00e1m najevo z\u00e1jem o to, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, a z\u00e1rove\u0148 um\u00edm \u010d\u00edst mezi \u0159\u00e1dky (co mi chce d\u00edt\u011b t\u00edm, co\u00a0\u0159\u00edk\u00e1, skute\u010dn\u011b \u0159\u00edct). V z\u00e1v\u011bru zbo\u0159ila m\u00fdtus “dobr\u00e9ho” u\u010ditele: u\u010ditel (ale i rodi\u010d) nen\u00ed nad\u010dlov\u011bk, je to \u010dlov\u011bk z masa a kost\u00ed, kter\u00fd by nem\u011bl usilovat o dokonalost, ale m\u011bl by p\u0159ijmout sebe sam\u00e9ho takov\u00e9ho, jak\u00fd je, a um\u011bt pracovat s chybou – jen tak m\u016f\u017ee nap\u0159. zamezit i syndromu vyho\u0159en\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u011bkujeme Lucii Beranov\u00e9 za podn\u011btn\u00fd a pohodov\u00fd semin\u00e1\u0159, kter\u00fd v z\u00e1v\u011bru v\u0161echny \u00fa\u010dastnice pozitivn\u011b zhodnotily – n\u00e1zory, je\u017e v jeho pr\u016fb\u011bhu zazn\u00edvaly, byly u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 pro v\u0161echny strany. Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 ve\u0159ejnost m\u011bla mo\u017enost nahl\u00e9dnout pod pokli\u010dku u\u010ditelsk\u00e9mu povol\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010ditel\u00e9 m\u011bli naopak p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost komunikovat s rodi\u010di, k \u010demu\u017e neb\u00fdv\u00e1 v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u0161koln\u00edm provozu mnoho \u0161anc\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u010cinnost projektu MAP Mnichovohradi\u0161\u0165sko se ch\u00fdl\u00ed ke konci. Ve \u010dtvrtek\u00a015. b\u0159ezna 2018 se uskute\u010dnil posledn\u00ed posledn\u00ed semin\u00e1\u0159 pro u\u010ditele a pro rodi\u010dovskou ve\u0159ejnost s n\u00e1zvem Jak vypad\u00e1 \u0161kola bez pora\u017een\u00fdch, jeho\u017e veden\u00ed se ujala Mgr. Lucie Beranov\u00e1, u\u010ditelka Z\u0160 Studentsk\u00e1. Lektorka vych\u00e1zela z my\u0161lenek psychoterapeuta Thomase Gordona a z jeho knihy\u00a0\u0160kola bez pora\u017een\u00fdch, jej\u00edm\u017e poselstv\u00edm je mj. i d\u016fle\u017eitost d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9ho vztahu a otev\u0159en\u00e9 komunikace […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3018"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3021,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3018\/revisions\/3021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}