{"id":1255,"date":"2017-06-18T06:52:23","date_gmt":"2017-06-18T04:52:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/?p=1255"},"modified":"2017-06-18T06:52:23","modified_gmt":"2017-06-18T04:52:23","slug":"jaka-byla-prednaska-na-tema-proc-dite-zlobi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/2017\/06\/jaka-byla-prednaska-na-tema-proc-dite-zlobi\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak\u00e1 byla p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ka na t\u00e9ma \u201ePro\u010d d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed\u201c?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ve st\u0159edu 7. <\/span><\/span>\u010dervna<\/span><\/span> 2017 zav\u00edtala <\/span><\/span>do <\/span><\/span>Mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly M\u00edrov\u00e1 <\/span><\/span>lektorka<\/span><\/span> Stanislava Emmerlingov\u00e1, kter\u00e1 si pro <\/span><\/span>z\u00e1jemce<\/span><\/span> p\u0159ipravila p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ku na t\u00e9ma \u201ePro\u010d d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed\u201c.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Co je to vlastn\u011b zloben\u00ed? Kdy <\/span><\/span>a pro\u010d <\/span><\/span>d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed? Ka\u017ed\u00e1 spole\u010dnost to vn\u00edm\u00e1 jinak, dokonce i v\u00a0rodin\u011b m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d jin\u00fd pohled na to, co je a co nen\u00ed zloben\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee zlobit, kdy\u017e se nud\u00ed, kdy\u017e se do\u017eaduje pozornosti nebo kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 stanoven\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 hranice. <\/span><\/span>Abychom problematick\u00fdm jev\u016fm v chov\u00e1n\u00ed zamezili, m\u011bli bychom u d\u011bt\u00ed uspokojovat<\/span><\/span> p\u011bt<\/span><\/span> z\u00e1kladn\u00edch emocion\u00e1ln\u00edch pot\u0159eb: m\u00edt sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto na sv\u011bt\u011b, pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed, p\u00e9\u010de a v\u00fd\u017eiva, pot\u0159eba podpory a pot\u0159eba b\u00fdt limitov\u00e1n. Pokud to rodi\u010de nedok\u00e1\u017eou, mohou se projevit probl\u00e9my v\u00a0chov\u00e1n\u00ed, ale i poruchy u\u010den\u00ed. <\/span><\/span>Lektorka<\/span><\/span> uv\u00e1d\u011bla mnoho p\u0159\u00edklad\u016f ze sv\u00e9 praxe, nebo\u0165 ji\u017e <\/span><\/span>20 let vede poradnu pro d\u011bti s poruchami u\u010den\u00ed a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00e1le tak\u00e9 vysv\u011btlila, jak je d\u00edt\u011b formov\u00e1no sv\u00fdm okol\u00edm a jak\u00fd maj\u00ed vliv na v\u00fdvoj osobnosti jedince ran\u00e1 traumata. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 rodi\u010de uklidnila, \u017ee nen\u00ed pot\u0159eba se tr\u00e1pit, pokud na\u0161e v\u00fdchova nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e1, ka\u017ed\u00fd d\u011bl\u00e1 chyby. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 m\u00edt na pam\u011bti, \u017ee pro sv\u00e9 d\u011bti d\u011bl\u00e1me to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, co um\u00edme. <\/span><\/span>D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed na\u0161i l\u00e1sku \u2013 denn\u011b bychom m\u011bli s d\u011btmi navazovat intenzivn\u00ed fyzick\u00fd kontakt, p\u0159i komunikaci s nimi pak nezapom\u00ednejme na kontakt o\u010dn\u00ed. V\u011bnujte sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti soust\u0159ed\u011bnou pozornost alespo\u0148 p\u011bt minut denn\u011b. P\u0159ij\u00edmejte sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 je; zdr\u017ete se kritiky a ur\u00e1\u017eek p\u0159i jeho p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9m ne\u00fasp\u011bchu. Nezapom\u00ednejte tak\u00e9 na to, \u017ee se d\u011bti u\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1podobou n\u00e1s dosp\u011bl\u00fdch (nejv\u00edce do 3 let). V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b pak u\u010dte d\u011bti vn\u00edmat pozitivn\u011b sv\u011bt kolem sebe a p\u0159ij\u00edmat nedostatky. <\/span><\/span>Budete-li se \u0159\u00eddit v\u00fd\u0161e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdmi doporu\u010den\u00edmi, zamez\u00edte problematick\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Byl to p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd podve\u010der, pan\u00ed Emmerlingovou si p\u0159i\u0161li poslechnout nejen rodi\u010de, ale i n\u011bkter\u00e9 pan\u00ed u\u010ditelky. Podle ohlas\u016f to bylo \u201ezaj\u00edmav\u00e9, p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9\u201c nebo \u201epoutav\u00e9, \u0161\u0165avnat\u00e9\u201c, <\/span><\/span>do\u0161lo i na<\/span><\/span> \u201ezaj\u00edmav\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edklady ze \u017eivota i z praxe\u201c.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ve st\u0159edu 7. \u010dervna 2017 zav\u00edtala do Mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly M\u00edrov\u00e1 lektorka Stanislava Emmerlingov\u00e1, kter\u00e1 si pro z\u00e1jemce p\u0159ipravila p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ku na t\u00e9ma \u201ePro\u010d d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed\u201c. Co je to vlastn\u011b zloben\u00ed? Kdy a pro\u010d d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed? Ka\u017ed\u00e1 spole\u010dnost to vn\u00edm\u00e1 jinak, dokonce i v\u00a0rodin\u011b m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d jin\u00fd pohled na to, co je a co nen\u00ed zloben\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1255"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1255"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1255\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1256,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1255\/revisions\/1256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/map-mh.cz\/map4\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}